Dear Dominus: “Abstinence” 25/06/2019


Dear Dominus. After the birth of my son, my good for nothing child father started to lust after teenage girls so I kicked him to the curb one time before he gave me an STD. I focused heavily on my son and put all my energy into him. Before I was really sexually active, I was a sexual freak I even used to squirt and leave the bed soaked. I decided to stay abstinent and I did this for 8 years. The first year was hard, I would still masturbate but then it became easier and I have not had an orgasm for the last 6.5 years. I now met this wonderful man and now of course sex has come back into play. 200274028-001The thing is, it is painful and I cant seem to get wet anymore. Dominus I mean I am completely dry even after he has been kissing me and touching me up, its like nothing. He does oral on me and it even feels really good and the only wetness that comes is from his lips mijk9kqturbxy9jnmuymje4odbiogu0zjzlnzzimgfkodjhymezymi4zs5qcgvnkpudaahnav_mxzmfzqmuzqg8gaewaqbut if he tries to insert a finger its all hell break loose.  It is shameful that I have to use lube or spit knowing how I used to be and now he thinks that I am not that much into him because I always step out the room to prepare down there for sex cause of embarrassment. It still is painful and I don’t climax. I don’t want to lose him and I know that sex is a very important part of any relationship but the urges go after the first painful penetration and I keep pushing him off. Is there any way I can get back my wetness? I have not gone through or am not at the age of menopause and I just don’t know what to do. I also want to enjoy and have a normal sex life again. I enjoyed sex before and would love to do it again. Please advise Dominus.

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